And Now for Something Completely Different

Hold it...I'm not going to do anything about clients, "almost clients," or my prostate. I just called a friend whom I see far to infrequently. This friend was a fast rising superstar in the political world, supported by people in both parties, and just one hell of a nice person who always did what he told you he would do. An honest politician...who knew they existed? Then, at the height of his popularity, an aneurysm in his brain burst.

Following hours of fear he would not survive, weeks of fearing he would not regain consciousness, months fearing he would never walk or talk...he surprised us all by doing all of the above and more. He was, however, left without short term memory and a few other assorted disabilities. Now he stays at home most of the time, but can still play golf and drink beer...two of his favorite pastimes.

Today is his birthday, I call everyone I know on their birthday...if it's in my daytimer; and once I know someones birthday, I call for life. So, I called my friend today. His wife answered the phone, recognized my voice, and knew why I was calling. She had him take the phone and I started singing...he really enjoyed it and laughed heartily, but he had no idea who I was. It was a bittersweet phone call, but I knew that before I dialed.

I hope I brought some light to his "special" day...I'm sure most days must seem pretty much like every other. I think of him often and all the good he did during his years in office...and all the good he did not have a chance to do. His wife is a saint (and that's the only time she's ever been called that!); her love and devotion are primarily responsible for my friend's survival and the quality of life he enjoys today.

How lucky we are who have not faced a challenge of the magnitude of the one that changed both of their lives. And how lucky I am to have friends who may not always recognize me, but who always have a smile and a cheerful attitude in the face of a difficult life.

I'm lucky on so many levels, and I'm thankful for all that I have in my life. I just wanted to say that while I still can because you never know..................